It is April 11th and it is still autism awareness month... Are you aware?
When Sahara was just 4 and a half, we were told to prepare to institutionalize her!!
Why?
Because she was catatonic, non-verbal, socially withdrawn, and we were opting to not participate in ABA therapy.
Once we got the confirmation of the label... the denial subsided... and we got to work. It was hard; I will not sugar coat it. I worked 24/7 while trying to make life seem as normal as possible for my whole family.
TODAY she is no longer catatonic, she is a funny, intelligent, determine little girl with potential beyond your comprehension. No, she isn't cured. Yes, she will always have to work a little hard than everyone else. But, we have undeniably made great strides and are well on our way to creating a typical life for her. Typical? What is that anyways?
Never except sub-standards for your child.... your thoughts & beliefs are more important than prognosis from professionals... if you believe she can, she will!!! Sometimes that is all there is to give me strength to go on. I am glad we did it MY way... Sahara will do all of the things that they tried to tell us that she wouldn't... and more!!
Why?
Because her father, her sister and I believe she can... and now we are finding out that so does she. And that belief is what gives us opportunities and empowerment. My expectations are higher than anyones, who better to be her life coach?
This isn't airy-fairy wishful thinking. It takes time, energy, sweat, tears and let's not forget lots of money that never seems to be there... but all of those things are delicately balanced between laughter, joy, hope and unconditional love.
We have come a long way in a mere 2 years... speech, eye contact, parallel play, interactive play, expressive communication, gross and fine motor development... and the catatonia? Gone like the wind.... never to come back.
SAHARA WILL DO OR BECOME ANYTHING SHE DESIRES.
WHY?
BECAUSE SHE HAS THIS FAMILY BEHIND HER....
AND WE SEE POTENTIAL WHEN NO ONE ELSE DOES...
ROCK ON LITTLE GIRL!!!!!!
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